Does it have to be unexpected to really bother you. We knew it was going to happen and it still SUCKED! No it really hurt! No it was un-imaginable that they would never be there again to see another birthday, Christmas or be there with you when you achieved all your dreams. I don't think an unexpected death is any different than an expected one. My boyfriend's sister was killed by a drunk driver on Valentine's day in 1998, you don't get over that and then his grandpa died of heart conditions two years ago, and you don't get over that. So death is not the problem it is the memories that hold you to that death.
I don't know who you lost, or how close they were, but still I was sorry to read this. Sometimes the sudden loss of someone you just cross paths with regularly can be monumentally disturbing because while people can be tough, life is always fragile and it's sobering to be reminded.
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Does it have to be unexpected to really bother you. We knew it was going to happen and it still SUCKED! No it really hurt! No it was un-imaginable that they would never be there again to see another birthday, Christmas or be there with you when you achieved all your dreams. I don't think an unexpected death is any different than an expected one. My boyfriend's sister was killed by a drunk driver on Valentine's day in 1998, you don't get over that and then his grandpa died of heart conditions two years ago, and you don't get over that. So death is not the problem it is the memories that hold you to that death.
I don't know who you lost, or how close they were, but still I was sorry to read this. Sometimes the sudden loss of someone you just cross paths with regularly can be monumentally disturbing because while people can be tough, life is always fragile and it's sobering to be reminded.
Feel better, Teach.
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