7.14.2026

finished reading

Set in the 1950s in the Jim Crow South, this novel follows the coming of age of motherless daughters Vernice (Niecy) and Annie. Although they are raised together, they soon take drastically different paths to adulthood. I found Niecy's journey more relatable; education becomes her path as she navigates a complex social life at Spelman College in Atlanta. In contrast, Annie's obsession with finding her mother felt a bit too intense for me, and her gritty, unpredictable road to Memphis occasionally veered into cliché, like her time at Lulabelle's brothel.

Told in alternating points of view, the narrative threads weave together as the girls discover friendship, family, and love. Even when geographically separated, Niecy and Annie remain fiercely connected and devoted to each other through constant letter writing. Tayari Jones's secondary characters are wonderfully well-developed, and the relationships throughout the book feel entirely authentic.

Ultimately, it is the emotional core of the book that stands out. As a motherless daughter myself, I found that the bottomless longing Jones describes rang entirely true.

From the publisher:
Vernice and Annie, two motherless daughters raised in Honeysuckle, Louisiana, have been best friends and neighbors since earliest childhood, but are fated to live starkly different lives. Raised by a fierce aunt determined to give her a stable home in the wake of her mother’s death, Vernice leaves Atlanta at eighteen for Spelman College, where she joins a sisterhood of powerfully connected Black women and marries into an affluent family. Annie, abandoned by her dissolute mother as a child, and fixated on the idea of finding her and filling the bottomless hole left by her absence, sets off on a journey that will take her into a world of peril and adversity, as well as love and adventure, and culminate in a battle for her life.

A novel about mothers and daughters, about friendship and sisterhood, and the complexities of being a woman in the American South, Kin is an exuberant, emotionally rich, unforgettable work from one of the brightest and most irresistible voices in contemporary fiction.

7.13.2026

currently

 I am...

ReadingKin by Tayari Jones

Listening to: the fan

Thinking:  my darling niece in Tulsa turns 30 at the end of this month and I'd like to do something special for her.  But what?

Feeling: frustrated--my dental appointment was postponed because the crown isn't ready

Celebrating:  I got home in time for the end of fresh strawberry season!  Shortcake awaits!

Grateful for: before my trip, I tidied up and put fresh sheets on the bed and fresh towels in the bathroom--that was very luxurious to come home to

Enjoying:  being home and returning to a summer vibe routine

Weather:  80° and cloudy

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7.12.2026

sunday stealing

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What's My Name?


1. ROCK STAR NAME (current pet and first car)? Example: If you have a dog named Max and your first car was a Chevy Malibu, your rock star name would be Max Malibu. Petless Taurus

2. RACECAR DRIVER NAME (the first names of your grandfathers)? Alfred Paul

3. SOAP OPERA NAME (your middle name, town you were born in)? Faye Aroostook

4. WITNESS PROTECTION PROGRAM NAME (your parents' middle names)? Aurore Daniel

5. ROMANCE AUTHOR NAME (favorite flower, favorite season/holiday)? Peony Autumn

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PostSecret is an ongoing community art project where people mail in their secrets anonymously on one side of a postcard. I like to post one that speaks to me each week.

7.11.2026

saturday 9


There'll Be Some Changes

Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

1) In this song, Ann-Margret sings that she's going to change her way of living. If you could simply snap your fingers and change something in your life, what would it be? oooh--that's tempting!  I would do a major downsizing of my wardrobe, declutter the kitchen, and have enough money that I won't have to worry about retirement

2) She tells us she's going to change her name. Have you ever changed your name, or asked people to refer to you differently? (Example: "Don't call me Betty anymore. I want to be Elizabeth.") the shift in my name from nickname to full name happened when I entered college--now people who've known me my whole life call me by my nickname but people I've more recently met call me by my full name

3) Ann-Margret was born Ann-Margret Olsson in Sweden and when was 5, her family moved to Winnetka, Illinois. She is fluent in both Swedish and English. When did you last converse in a language other than English? let me think--it was when I was last in Quebec City in 2016

4) Olivia Newton-John was a big Ann-Margret fan. When she was cast in the movie Grease, Olivia asked that her character's name be changed from "Sandy Dumbrowski" to "Sandy Olsson" in tribute. Grease is one of the most profitable movies ever made. Have you seen it more than once? when the movie came out, I was in 8th grade--the perfect age to go apeshit crazy for it--I absolutely LOVED it and have seen it a bazillion times

5) Ann-Margret celebrated her 85th birthday earlier this year. Back in 2024, Ann-Margret told a reporter that she planned to celebrate her 83rd birthday with a spin on her motorcycle, a lavender Harley-Davidson. "I love speed," she explained. Do you always observe the speed limit? Or have you been known to zip along a little faster? in all honesty, I zip along a little faster but never criminally fast

6) This week's song was written in 1921 and over the last 100+ years it's been recorded more than 400 times. Before today, had you heard it? no, I hadn't

7) The lyrics were written by William Weldon Higgins, who was better known as vaudeville comic Billy Higgins. When did you most recently laugh out loud? at lunch today with some girlfriends

8) The music was composed by William Overstreet. In addition to writing music, he was a respected director at Chicago's Grand Theater. When did you last see a live performance (concert, play, etc.)? I think it was when I went to the Fleetwood Mac tribute band last October

9) Random question: Do you have more or less than $20 cash in your wallet right now? yes

7.09.2026

three on thursday

Thing one:  my month has flown by!  I can't believe I'm returning home tomorrow!

Thing two:  we've played so many hands of Spite & Malice that it's part of our daily routine--I'm going to be so lonely when I get home.  I think my Virginia sister is ahead of me in victories this visit; however, I am way ahead of her overall.  I mean, it's a grudge match that began in 1985.

Thing three:  it will be an adjustment to slip back into my little life.  This has been an awesome vacation--I'm more relaxed than I ever would have been at home.

7.06.2026

currently

 I am...

Reading:  The Queen of Wishful Thinking by Milly Johnson (in all honesty, I haven't been reading at all)

Listening to: Remarkably Bright Creatures--it's a very good movie

Thinking:  I need to get geared up for my return trip--Friday the 10th

Feeling: fantastic--I've relaxed, and I've been pampered

Celebrating:  my Advanced Placement student who took the exam scored a 4 out of 5!  I'm over the moon for her!

Grateful for: Dad is getting stronger and recovering, I'm so relieved

Enjoying:  before it got too hot today, I enjoyed the lovely porch

Weather:  87° and mostly sunny

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finished reading

This novel follows AJ Graves and Noah Drew as they navigate their teen years into adulthood.  The story is told in three acts.  In Act I, AJ is working at a video shop when her brother's friend, Noah, begins working there, and they bond over a short-lived space opera television show.  Noah is the latest in a highly successful acting dynasty and he and AJ begin studying improvisation.  Naturally, AJ and Noah develop intense, teenage love.  In Act II, they are reunited on an intergalactic "unscripted" television show.  Their feelings develop.  But things get complicated and messy.  In Act III, it's all about developing a future together. Breaking up.  Making up.  Over and over.

I'm trying not to give any major spoilers.  I enjoyed the book, but it was somewhat repetitive.  I did enjoy the blurred lines between the characters' acting and reality--especially the artistry involved in improvisational acting.  I enjoyed the theme of fate v choice, and maybe it was a bit heavy-handed.  

From the publisher:
From the award-winning author of Songs in Ursa Major comes an epic, decade-spanning love story that blazes through the worlds of acting and comedy, and charts a connection so powerful it might just break space and time itself.

In the summer of 2000, AJ Graves dreams of writing for SNL; instead, she’s stuck working in a video rental store, with slim odds of escaping her Massachusetts small town and large family. Then in walks Noah Drew, the enigmatic and intense scion of the Drew acting dynasty, and her life changes forever. Despite wildly different upbringings, the two forge a deep, cosmic bond first as friends, then as acting partners—until one day, Noah disappears without a word.

Seven years later in New York City, AJ is shocked to find herself cast in the same intergalactic TV production as Noah, by then a well-known Hollywood heartthrob. As their on-screen characters grow closer every day, the lines between reality and acting begin to blur. Unable to stay away from each other, AJ and Noah are forced to confront the truth of what happened years ago—and the devastating secret that will send their lives careening apart, even as fate continues to draw them together.

Blending unforgettable characters, explosive chemistry, and devastating emotion, Into the Blue is a journey unlike any other—one that asks: What does it mean to diverge from the script to forge your own story?

7.05.2026

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PostSecret is an ongoing community art project where people mail in their secrets anonymously on one side of a postcard. I like to post one that speaks to me each week.

sunday stealing

 

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4th of July Meme


1) If you could attend a 4th of July fireworks display anywhere in the United States, where would you choose? Boston--over the Charles River, listening to the Boston Pops playing the 1812 Overture


2) What book are you currently reading? Into the Blue by Emma Brodie


3) What have you been listening to? lots of different Spotify and Pandora playlists


4) What shows or movies have you been watching? we really loved The Other Bennett Sister on BritBox, I will watch it again!