10.18.2026

sunday stealing

 
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Getting To Know You...


1) Describe yourself in three words. thoughtful, creative, spirited

2) What's your favorite dish at your favorite restaurant? lately when I've gone to breakfast, I've ordered breakfast sandwiches on English muffins:  egg, cheese, and ham

3) Did you set goals for 2026? If yes, how are you proceeding toward them? I set a goal of reading 100 books, and I am on book 105; I also set a goal of publishing reviews of the books on GoodReads and I've gotten lots of positive feedback from them

4) What's something you have learned the hard way? even though I detest having dental work done, it's necessary
 
5) If you could skip one item on today's to-do list, what would it be? I do not have a to-do list today! 😁

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PostSecret is an ongoing community art project where people mail in their secrets anonymously on one side of a postcard. I like to post one that speaks to me each week.

saturday 9


Somewhere Over Laredo

Unfamiliar with this week's song? Hear it here.


1) In this song, Laney Wilson namechecks Tito's Vodka. Is there a product you you are very brand loyal to? (It doesn't have to be liquor. Maybe you always reach for Dawn Dishwashing Liquid, even if another soap is on sale.) my loyalties lie with Dawn dish soap, Bounty paper towels, and Wen cleansing conditioner
 
2) The lyrics start with her in a window seat on a flight out of Houston. Do you prefer the window or the aisle? window, please!
 
3) She's dreaming of rodeo nights with the guy she loves. If you could spend this evening with anyone at all, anywhere at all, where would you go and who would be with you? my bestie and I attended a Literacy Tea fundraiser and it was what I would pick and the company I would pick
 
4) Lainey is from Baskin, LA, population 200. Do you prefer big cities or small towns? small towns preferably near cities
 
5) There's a Netflix documentary about Lainey called Keepin' Country Cool. What show have you recently streamed? Ted Lasso
 
6) This week's song borrows liberally from "Somewhere Over the Rainbow," so much so that "Rainbow" songwriters Harold Arlen and Yip Harburg receive credit. "Somewhere Over the Rainbow" is the most beloved song from The Wizard of Oz. Can you name another? "If I Only Had A Brain"
 
7) In 2025, when this song was popular, more patients took advantage of telehealth than ever before. Have you ever had a virtual doctor visit? yes, and the doctor told me to go to the ER immediately
 
8) Also in 2025, smart home technology was integrated into more new home construction. Do you use smart devices to automate your lights, thermostat, or doorbell? my household is dumb--not a smart device in control
 
9) Random question – On which day are you happier: a) the day you take off on vacation or b) the day you return home from your trip? that's a good question--I love the anticipation but I equally love coming home

finished reading

I enjoyed this YA dystopian/utopian novel. The world-building is fantastic, and the characters are quite well-developed and distinct (and thankfully, the parents and adults are not bumbling idiots). In this futuristic society, there is no natural death, so a squad of professional scythes manages the population—it makes sense in the story, even if it's hard to describe briefly!

In some of the reading I've done about this series, it is categorized as a romance; however, this book is light on romance, focusing much more on platonic love than desire. The central characters recruited as scythe apprentices, Citra and Rowan, come from very different backgrounds. Through a series of events, they are re-apprenticed from Faraday, a compassionate scythe, to two other scythes with competing moral codes. And that's where the action really takes off.

Overall, the pace of the book is a bit uneven, as some repetition and overly detailed descriptions slow the action down. But once the twists occur, the plot wildly careens to a cliffhanger ending.

From the publisher:
Thou shalt kill.

A world with no hunger, no disease, no war, no misery. Humanity has conquered all those things, and has even conquered death. Now scythes are the only ones who can end life—and they are commanded to do so, in order to keep the size of the population under control.

Citra and Rowan are chosen to apprentice to a scythe—a role that neither wants. These teens must master the “art” of taking life, knowing that the consequence of failure could mean losing their own.

10.12.2026

currently

I am...

Reading: We Keep The Dead Close by Becky Cooper

Listening to:  my neighbors; they are not being loud, but I can hear the murmur of their tv

Thinking: I can visit my sisters whenever I want after June 7th--that's my retirement date!

Feeling:  tired but happy

Celebrating:   it was a GREAT visit with my Pennsylvania and Virginia and local sisters!

Grateful for:  all the laughter

Enjoying: my bonus day--I hung out with my Virginia sister
 
Weather:  39° and mostly cloudy

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10.11.2026

sunday stealing

 
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Survey Asks...


1. What was the last gift you received? a giant Freshcut Paper card

2. Who did you last hang out with? my Pennsylvania and Virginia and local sisters

3. Do you often lose the remote? this is a fun question--sinceI moved into this apartment in 2023, I haven't watched tv on my television because I cannot find the remote

4. When did you last check Facebook? about fifteen minutes ago

5. Are there scented candles in the room you're in? no, I can't burn candles here

6. Next time you leave the house, where will you be going? probably to my dad's

7. Do you know anyone named Steven or Stephen or Steve or Stevie? yes to all of them

8. Which do you prefer: macaroni salad or potato salad? potato salad

9. Do you have an ice maker in your refrigerator door? no

10. When you woke up this morning, did you get up straightaway or lounge a bit? I got up

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PostSecret is an ongoing community art project where people mail in their secrets anonymously on one side of a postcard. I like to post one that speaks to me each week.

10.10.2026

saturday 9


Big Girls Don't Cry

Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

1) When is the last time you shed a tear?  Monday during an intense conversation

2) Lyricist/producer Bob Crewe recalled he got the idea for this song while watching a movie on TV. "Big girls don't cry" was a line from the 1956 film Slightly Scarlet. Give us a quote from another movie. "Snap out of it!"

3) This inspiration came to Bob during the late night/early morning hours. What time of day are you most productive? I'm at my best in the morning

4) Bob wrote another song for the Four Seasons, "Silence Is Golden." The band was not happy with their recording and never released it as a single. Three years later, The Tremeloes had an international Top 10 hit with "Silence Is Golden." Tell us about a decision you wish you could do over. oh gosh... I wish I hadn't had cheesecake after dinner

5) Before he got his big break, Four Seasons lead singer Frankie Valli worked as barber. Do you have a hair care appointment scheduled? I do not
 
6) Oscar-winning actor Joe Pesci has a connection to the band. He was a young chum of Four Seasons founding member Tommy DeVito. By the time DeVito left the group and found himself overwhelmed by gambling debts, Pesci was a star. He helped his friend out, making Tommy his personal assistant and getting him cameo roles in films. Tell us about someone who has been there for you in tough times. My Virginia and Pennsylvania sisters have been in town, so the four of us have been spending as much time as possible together.  My sisters have definitely been there for me.
 
7) The Four Seasons disbanded in 1977 after 17 years together. The original bandmates reunited onstage 1990 when they were inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. It was an important night for them professionally and personally, too, as it gave the old friends a chance to reconnect and mend fences. Is there anyone from your past you wish you could reach out to? no one comes to mind

8) Another hit song from 1962 was "I Left My Heart in San Francisco." Tony Bennett compares San Francisco to Rome, Paris and Manhattan. Have you visited any of those four cities? I've been to San Francisco, Paris, and Manhattan
 
9) Random question – You're home all alone. Do you close the door when you use the bathroom? no, I do not

10.08.2026

finished reading

Somehow or other, I managed to miss this classic--until now. It turned out to be a perfect, eerie fall read, packed with intrigue, supernatural atmosphere, and things that go bump in the night.

For a novel nearly 180 years old, it remains strikingly relevant. There is so much here for a book group to dissect: class dynamics, individual autonomy, love versus obsession, and Victorian gender expectations. Viewing it through a modern lens makes it fascinating to consider how radical Jane's choices were for her era: her decisions were tightly constrained by society, yet fiercely liberating in practice.

That said, the pacing wasn't always smooth sailing. Certain sections bogged down the narrative momentum, and a tighter edit trimming some of the secondary scenes would have kept the central drama much more engaging. Still, a compelling and thought-provoking read.

From the publisher:
Orphaned Jane Eyre grows up in the home of her heartless aunt, where she endures loneliness and cruelty, and at a charity school with a harsh regime. This troubled childhood strengthens Jane's natural independence and spirit - which prove necessary when she finds employment as a governess to the young ward of Byronic, brooding Mr Rochester. As her feelings for Rochester develop, Jane gradually uncovers Thornfield Hall's terrible secret, forcing her to make a choice. Should she stay with Rochester and live with the consequences, or follow her convictions - even if it means leaving the man she loves? A novel of intense power and intrigue, Jane Eyre dazzled readers with its passionate depiction of a woman's search for equality and freedom.

10.05.2026

currently

I am...

Reading: Jane Eyre by Charlotte Brontë; I hope I can finish it for my book group gathering on Wednesday

Listening to: Jane Eyre

Thinking:  about micro adventures to try this fall

Feeling:  happy-tired

Celebrating:  today was a very good day

Grateful for:  the ability to take some earned paid leave

Enjoying:  spending time with my sisters
 
Weather:  45° and clear

A quote I want to share:



10.04.2026

postsecret

 



PostSecret is an ongoing community art project where people mail in their secrets anonymously on one side of a postcard. I like to post one that speaks to me each week.