8.16.2026

finished reading

This is a perfect summer read: a later-in-life romance with clever dialogue, warm family dynamics, and a delightfully fun fake dating setup.  Of course, the main female character, Dolly, is a can-do fixer of everyone's problems, except her own.  Her relationship with her teenage son is sweet.  Her sibling dynamics seemed authentic.  And I appreciate the bond she has with her father.  

The main male character, Stewart, is a wealthy, unlucky-in-love workaholic who enters a fake relationship with Dolly.  Of course, their worlds collide.  Of course, they fall in love.  But how it all happens is the good stuff: quiet moments of vulnerability and witty banter.  I loved the secondary characters, too, especially Stewart's sister.

The audio is delightful.

From the publisher:
If they start by pretending, can they end with something real?

Dolly Brick has never met a problem she couldn’t solve. Not when her mom left when she was twelve, and not at thirty-nine when she moves with her son back to Whitfield, Rhode Island, for the summer to keep her dad and brother from losing the family home.

So when she comes across Stewart Whitfield—annoyingly handsome scion of the Whitfield family—with a flat tire and at the wrong end of a very public, very humiliating breakup, it’s in her nature to help. But Stewart’s proposed arrangement ends up being more than either of them bargained for, because as public dinners and high-society benefits turn into sunset boat rides and kisses that hit her bloodstream like a ghost pepper, Dolly starts to feel something more than helpful. She’s never relied on anyone besides herself—can she really start now?

sunday stealing

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WHAT'S YOUR FAVORITE ...? 


1. Flavor?  chocolate

2. Movie? from recent years, it's Hamnet

3. Piece of jewelry? silver hoop earrings from Silpada

4. Place to be? right here

5. Boy's name? Paul

6. Girl's name? Faye

7. Candy? Reese's or Snickers

8. Sports team? all of the teams where I teach:  go Vikings!

9. Color? brown

10. Month? October

postsecret

 


PostSecret is an ongoing community art project where people mail in their secrets anonymously on one side of a postcard. I like to post one that speaks to me each week.

happy day 15 & 16

8/15:  An incredibly beautiful day!  I took a leisurely drive around the countryside with no destination.

8/16: My last official day of my last summer vacation!  This retirement year is going to have many last firsts and last lasts.



8.15.2026

finished reading

So, I’ve been sitting with this book for a while, trying to figure out how to articulate what it’s truly about, given its lack of a traditional plot. Rather, it’s an immersive story of how a place takes hold, carrying the echoes of the past alongside hope for the future.

Set in Ireland, the narrative follows Tomás, who has little recollection of his childhood after barely surviving the Great Hunger in a poorhouse. There, he meets Phina, who later becomes his wife, and together they raise four children: Liam, Enda, Rose, and Eugene.

A gifted cartographer, Tomás is hired by the British government to redraw and redistrict Ireland during the 1860s Ordnance Survey. When ten-year-old Liam accompanies his father to learn the craft, a mystical experience in a remote copse changes them forever. It is here that the history of the land and all who came before cast an indelible shadow over their lives. As the children grow, they face unimaginable hardships and heartbreak, yet continually find ways to persevere.

I cannot say enough about the beauty of this book. The atmosphere, deep emotional resonance, and exquisite writing held me from start to finish. Despite the heavy themes, I couldn't put it down. Additionally, the audiobook narration is phenomenal; Dane Whyte O'Hara's authentic Irish cadence makes O'Farrell's prose and subtle folklore elements come vibrantly alive.

From the publisher:
'You will never understand how the land remembers, how deep the roots grow'

A spellbinding story of separation, longing, recovery and survival as a family makes a new home in the aftermath of tragedy.

On a windswept peninsula stretching out into the Atlantic, Tomás and his reluctant son, Liam, are working for the great Ordnance Survey project to map the whole of Ireland. The year is 1865, and in a country not long since ravaged and emptied by the Great Hunger, the task is not an easy one. Tomás, however, is determined that his maps will be a record of the disaster.

The British soldiers in charge are due to arrive any day, expecting the work to be completed, but Tomás is sent off course by an unsettling encounter in a copse. His life, and those of his family, will never be the same again. Liam is terrified by the sudden change in his taciturn father. What was it that caused such cracks to open in Tomás and how is Liam, aged only ten, going to finish the mapping, and get them both home?

Land is a story of buried treasure, overlapping lives, ancient woodland, persistent ghosts, a particularly loyal dog, and how, when it comes to both land and history, nothing ever goes away.

saturday 9


Blueberry Hill

Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

This month Saturday 9 will be tasty, featuring songs with food in the title.

1) Fats Domino sings about a hill named for blueberries. According to the Old Farmers Almanac, blueberries can grow just about anywhere in North America, as long as they have plenty of direct sunlight. Do you have a garden? as I have the THUMB OF DEATH, I do not have a garden

2) Blueberries are low in calories and rich in fiber. Are they a regular part of your diet? no, I detest them

3) They also have a high moisture content. Staying hydrated is important to human health. Do you drink the standard recommended 8 glasses of water every day? indeed I do--or I'm very close to it

4) Fats originally had a big hit with "Blueberry Hill" in 1956, and then enjoyed the record's renewed popularity in the mid-70s, when "Blueberry Hill" was often referenced as Richie Cunningham's favorite song. Without looking it up, do you remember what show Richie Cunningham was on? (Extra non-existent Saturday 9 points if you can also name the actor who played Richie.) oh yes!  Happy Days and Richie was played by Ron Howard

5) Born Antoine Domino, he took the name "Fats" not just because of his physique. Growing up, jazz pianist Fats Waller was one of his heroes. If you were to adopt the first name of someone you admire, what would we call you? Louise

6) Despite his warm and friendly stage persona, Fats was shy around strangers and hated giving interviews. Tell us about something you did only because it was part of your job, not because you enjoyed it. attended meetings, every single meeting could have been an email

7) In 1956, when this record was topping the charts, the Olympics were held in Melbourne. Have you ever been to the land down under? no, I have not

8)  The star of the 1956 Olympics was Austrian Toni Sailer, who won all three gold medals in Alpine skiing. Do you prefer snow skiing, water skiing, or just watching other people ski? if I am cozy and warm, I will watch skiing

9) Random question: Do you believe everyone has a jealous streak? yes, it's human nature

8.14.2026

happy day 14

8/14:  There were no people at the laundromat when I arrived.  By the time I put my laundry in the dryer, two transport vans had dropped off around thirty migrant workers for their weekly stint.  My timing was fantastic.

8.13.2026

happy day 12 & 13

8/12:  A very dear friend that I've reconnected with invited me to her house for a family game night.  It was just like old times, although it was not our old friend group.  Still--it's great to reconnect.  And I love playing games.

8/13:  I went to school today. I know, I'm kind of shaking my head in shock, too.  But I spent about fifteen minutes sorting things that had gotten piled on my desk over the summer.  I then attended the Curriculum Leaders meeting, which was quite productive.  I am holding firm to my no school outside of contract hours stance.  In previous years, I would have spent hours setting up my classroom and getting materials ready for the first day of school on my own time.  But not anymore.  To summarize:  the meeting was productive, and I held firmly to my boundaries!



three on thursday

 

Thing 1:  something new to me that I am bananas about is Skinny Dipped Lemon Bliss almonds.  Holy moly!  Talk about delicious!

Thing 2:  since I got pissed at my manicurist of fourteen years and decided not to get manicures anymore, my nails were horribly wrecked by consistent gel manicures.  My Pennsylvania sister recommended the brand Londontown and I am astonished at the results I've had.  My nails are healing and growing.  And look good while that's happening!  I wish I could be a sponsored influencer for the brand because I'm a devotee!

Thing 3:  my search for the perfect sunglasses is over!  A friend mentioned some over-the-glasses sunglasses she had purchased (from a TikTok shop) and raved about them.  I found similar glasses from a reputable online shop because I'm skeptical of TikTok shops.  Et voilà!

8.11.2026

finished reading

This is a whimsical romance revolving around "book boyfriends," answering the question: what if you could have a relationship with your favorite fictional character?  What I particularly liked about this premise is how Zoe Knight, the main female character, grows from an underdog to empowered.  Zoe dreams of life as a romance author, while the male main character, bookstore owner Nick, doesn't stock that genre.  Through magic, Zoe is able to read Mr. Darcy to life from an old copy of Pride and Prejudice. What ensues is a fanciful exploration of time travel and Mr. Darcy's bewildering discovery of modern life.  

With a nod to different romance tropes, especially fated mates, the story pays homage to romances from Pride and Prejudice to contemporary novels--celebrating the power of love.

From the publisher:
"It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single woman in possession of many romance novels, must be in want of a book boyfriend."

Zoe Knight, a struggling romance writer, has sworn off men for good. At least…the ones in real life. Once a believer in a happily ever after, she now curbs her loneliness with the help of the best book boyfriends in literature – and there is no better man than Jane Austen's Mr. Darcy. So when she stumbles into a classic London bookshop and argues with the annoyingly attractive store owner, Nick, who refuses to sell romance novels, she decides to liberate him of a dusty copy of Pride & Prejudice abandoned on a top shelf.

But this is no ordinary book.

After reading from the pages, Zoe finds herself in a remarkable situation: she has accidentally summoned the Mr. Darcy to the real world. Now, she's face-to-face with the man she's loved forever, and he's everything she dreamed he would be. Handsome? Check. Brooding? Check. Talks like he swallowed a thesaurus? Check and check. But even in all his regency perfection, can he ever be as good as in the novel? And if he's here, in her London apartment trying to figure out how to work a shower , what will happen to the literary world he came from? With Nick—the last man she could ever be prevailed upon to work with—urging her to send the fictional Darcy back to his own story, Zoe will have to decide what she really wants from a happy ending, before it's too late.

finished reading

Even though Death is the main character in this book, the story is gentle and rather hopeful.  It's the story of death and grief and the beauty in ordinary life.  Travis Smith is modern-day Death, a solitary, handsome man who's intrigued by deep feelings.  He can't change a person's fate and doesn't judge, but he can listen and offer awareness of the transitions of life. Travis befriends his neighbor, Dalia, a midwife, and her precocious daughter, Layla; it becomes more difficult for Travis to remain detached when he is challenged by Layla's boisterous curiosity.

The book offers value to ordinary moments, as seen through the characters that Travis encounters in his professional capacity.  I think the book balances the heavy theme of mortality with a hopeful tone.  This book left me with a lot to think about.  There are moments of profound sadness and the unfairness of death and grief, but it's beautifully written.

From the publisher:
Travis is Death in the modern world. He wears jeans and a T-shirt and lives in a small, grey town. His job is to offer people comfort in their final hours of life. He’s stoic, gentle, and a little naive, despite everything he knows. He’s young and handsome, despite who he is. Each death he witnesses is meaningful to him; he listens, never judges, and most importantly, never tries to change anyone’s fate. He knows that every life must eventually end to maintain the balance of the universe and he respects the cycle.

Then he meets Dalia, a midwife, and her boisterous eight-year-old daughter Layla, who live across the hall. As Dalia and Layla come to embrace Travis, it becomes more difficult to maintain the detachment that’s allowed him to function for so long. Their time together teaches him what’s truly important in life—and what might be irrevocably lost in death.

Written with radiant warmth, wisdom, and compassion, Everything Was Beautiful and Nothing Hurt is a timeless story about appreciating life, accepting its end, and finding our place in the universe—especially when it feels most impossible—that will resonate with anyone who has ever loved and lost or worried at time’s passing.

happy day 10 & 11

 8/10: I was able to troubleshoot my internet outage.  It took some finagling, but I got it back in working order.

8/11:  I spent the day doing small chores (like replacing the toilet seat and emptying trash) and reading.  I was able to finish Most Ardently Yours by Freya Sampson.



8.10.2026

currently

I am...


Listening to:  the fan

Thinking:  this is the last week of summer vacation

Feeling:  I just realized that this is the last week of my last summer vacation!  

Celebrating:  I actually am excited for this school year, even though I am not doing any prep work for it outside of our workshop days

Grateful for:  really good friends; our breakfast this morning lasted for a few hours, but the time flew

Enjoying:  this season of Big Brother--it's one of the best!

Weather:  76° and partly cloudy

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8.09.2026

happy day 9

8/9:  A spontaneous trip with my bestie for lunch at Brookside in Smyrna.  The meatloaf was divine!



postsecret



PostSecret is an ongoing community art project where people mail in their secrets anonymously on one side of a postcard. I like to post one that speaks to me each week.

sunday stealing

 
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Why Not Just Meme?


When You Can't Think of Anything to Blog About ...

1) Describe your typical weekend, and tell us how this weekend has been different. a typical weekend includes some kind of friend outing (like brunch or coffee) and errand running or laundry on Saturday afternoon as well as Saturday 9; Sunday is for hurkle durkle time and Sunday Stealing and Postsecret.  This weekend has been no different.

2) What food hits your bliss spot? lately it's Biscoff biscuits
 
3) Where did you stay on your last vacation (hotel, Airbnb/Vrbo, friends/family)? with my sister, her husband, and Gus the awesome doggo, who has since been placed on a diet

4) If you had a personality eraser, what part of yours would you erase? sometimes I catch myself being a know-it-all and I detest that part of my personality
 
5) Think of your friends. Tell us about the first one who popped into your head. my teacher bestie, Jess is 30 years younger (I am older than her parents!!!!) and we get along swimmingly and that is where #4 comes in