8.20.2026

three on thursday

 

Thing 1:  tomorrow after school is my annual back-to-school massage appointment!  Boy, do I need it!

Thing 2:  in all honesty, this week has flown by.  It kind of feels like I've been back at school longer than two days.

Thing 3:  there really is no tired like teacher tired. 🥱

happy day 19 & 20

8/19: Pretty flowers on my last first day of school.

8/20: I really liked today's outfit.  Nothing flashy, but comfortable.



finished reading

A darkly twisty satire that pits generations against each other in a world fueled by tech and middle-class wealth. The characters are completely unlikable in the best way possible, driving a delightfully twisty revenge plot. Sharp, fun, and practically begging for a TV adaptation.

From the publisher:
"Every successful marriage has its own private language." So it is for baby boomer Kate and her beloved architect husband Jack, thirty years into their seemingly idyllic metropolitan North London life. And so it is for spiky millennial screenwriter Phoebe and her charming loafer of a partner, Tony.

But when Phoebe’s steamy television series Cheating becomes the year’s most talked-about show, Kate thinks she sees in it details and intimacies of her marriage that only she and her husband could possibly have known. Who has betrayed whom? Who has stolen whose story—and why?

A black comedy of love, trust, resentment, and entitlement, Look What You Made Me Do is the sharply observed and suspenseful story of two very different women from two very different generations, entangled in a battle only one of them can win.

8.18.2026

happy day 18

 8/18:  Dinner with friends--one of whom I haven't seen in thirty-odd years!


8.17.2026

happy day 17

8/17: My last back-to-school workshop training!  Never to have PowerPoints read to me in a monotone!



8.16.2026

finished reading

This is a perfect summer read: a later-in-life romance with clever dialogue, warm family dynamics, and a delightfully fun fake dating setup.  Of course, the main female character, Dolly, is a can-do fixer of everyone's problems, except her own.  Her relationship with her teenage son is sweet.  Her sibling dynamics seemed authentic.  And I appreciate the bond she has with her father.  

The main male character, Stewart, is a wealthy, unlucky-in-love workaholic who enters a fake relationship with Dolly.  Of course, their worlds collide.  Of course, they fall in love.  But how it all happens is the good stuff: quiet moments of vulnerability and witty banter.  I loved the secondary characters, too, especially Stewart's sister.

The audio is delightful.

From the publisher:
If they start by pretending, can they end with something real?

Dolly Brick has never met a problem she couldn’t solve. Not when her mom left when she was twelve, and not at thirty-nine when she moves with her son back to Whitfield, Rhode Island, for the summer to keep her dad and brother from losing the family home.

So when she comes across Stewart Whitfield—annoyingly handsome scion of the Whitfield family—with a flat tire and at the wrong end of a very public, very humiliating breakup, it’s in her nature to help. But Stewart’s proposed arrangement ends up being more than either of them bargained for, because as public dinners and high-society benefits turn into sunset boat rides and kisses that hit her bloodstream like a ghost pepper, Dolly starts to feel something more than helpful. She’s never relied on anyone besides herself—can she really start now?

sunday stealing

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WHAT'S YOUR FAVORITE ...? 


1. Flavor?  chocolate

2. Movie? from recent years, it's Hamnet

3. Piece of jewelry? silver hoop earrings from Silpada

4. Place to be? right here

5. Boy's name? Paul

6. Girl's name? Faye

7. Candy? Reese's or Snickers

8. Sports team? all of the teams where I teach:  go Vikings!

9. Color? brown

10. Month? October

postsecret

 


PostSecret is an ongoing community art project where people mail in their secrets anonymously on one side of a postcard. I like to post one that speaks to me each week.

happy day 15 & 16

8/15:  An incredibly beautiful day!  I took a leisurely drive around the countryside with no destination.

8/16: My last official day of my last summer vacation!  This retirement year is going to have many last firsts and last lasts.



8.15.2026

finished reading

So, I’ve been sitting with this book for a while, trying to figure out how to articulate what it’s truly about, given its lack of a traditional plot. Rather, it’s an immersive story of how a place takes hold, carrying the echoes of the past alongside hope for the future.

Set in Ireland, the narrative follows Tomás, who has little recollection of his childhood after barely surviving the Great Hunger in a poorhouse. There, he meets Phina, who later becomes his wife, and together they raise four children: Liam, Enda, Rose, and Eugene.

A gifted cartographer, Tomás is hired by the British government to redraw and redistrict Ireland during the 1860s Ordnance Survey. When ten-year-old Liam accompanies his father to learn the craft, a mystical experience in a remote copse changes them forever. It is here that the history of the land and all who came before cast an indelible shadow over their lives. As the children grow, they face unimaginable hardships and heartbreak, yet continually find ways to persevere.

I cannot say enough about the beauty of this book. The atmosphere, deep emotional resonance, and exquisite writing held me from start to finish. Despite the heavy themes, I couldn't put it down. Additionally, the audiobook narration is phenomenal; Dane Whyte O'Hara's authentic Irish cadence makes O'Farrell's prose and subtle folklore elements come vibrantly alive.

From the publisher:
'You will never understand how the land remembers, how deep the roots grow'

A spellbinding story of separation, longing, recovery and survival as a family makes a new home in the aftermath of tragedy.

On a windswept peninsula stretching out into the Atlantic, Tomás and his reluctant son, Liam, are working for the great Ordnance Survey project to map the whole of Ireland. The year is 1865, and in a country not long since ravaged and emptied by the Great Hunger, the task is not an easy one. Tomás, however, is determined that his maps will be a record of the disaster.

The British soldiers in charge are due to arrive any day, expecting the work to be completed, but Tomás is sent off course by an unsettling encounter in a copse. His life, and those of his family, will never be the same again. Liam is terrified by the sudden change in his taciturn father. What was it that caused such cracks to open in Tomás and how is Liam, aged only ten, going to finish the mapping, and get them both home?

Land is a story of buried treasure, overlapping lives, ancient woodland, persistent ghosts, a particularly loyal dog, and how, when it comes to both land and history, nothing ever goes away.

saturday 9


Blueberry Hill

Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

This month Saturday 9 will be tasty, featuring songs with food in the title.

1) Fats Domino sings about a hill named for blueberries. According to the Old Farmers Almanac, blueberries can grow just about anywhere in North America, as long as they have plenty of direct sunlight. Do you have a garden? as I have the THUMB OF DEATH, I do not have a garden

2) Blueberries are low in calories and rich in fiber. Are they a regular part of your diet? no, I detest them

3) They also have a high moisture content. Staying hydrated is important to human health. Do you drink the standard recommended 8 glasses of water every day? indeed I do--or I'm very close to it

4) Fats originally had a big hit with "Blueberry Hill" in 1956, and then enjoyed the record's renewed popularity in the mid-70s, when "Blueberry Hill" was often referenced as Richie Cunningham's favorite song. Without looking it up, do you remember what show Richie Cunningham was on? (Extra non-existent Saturday 9 points if you can also name the actor who played Richie.) oh yes!  Happy Days and Richie was played by Ron Howard

5) Born Antoine Domino, he took the name "Fats" not just because of his physique. Growing up, jazz pianist Fats Waller was one of his heroes. If you were to adopt the first name of someone you admire, what would we call you? Louise

6) Despite his warm and friendly stage persona, Fats was shy around strangers and hated giving interviews. Tell us about something you did only because it was part of your job, not because you enjoyed it. attended meetings, every single meeting could have been an email

7) In 1956, when this record was topping the charts, the Olympics were held in Melbourne. Have you ever been to the land down under? no, I have not

8)  The star of the 1956 Olympics was Austrian Toni Sailer, who won all three gold medals in Alpine skiing. Do you prefer snow skiing, water skiing, or just watching other people ski? if I am cozy and warm, I will watch skiing

9) Random question: Do you believe everyone has a jealous streak? yes, it's human nature

8.14.2026

happy day 14

8/14:  There were no people at the laundromat when I arrived.  By the time I put my laundry in the dryer, two transport vans had dropped off around thirty migrant workers for their weekly stint.  My timing was fantastic.

8.13.2026

happy day 12 & 13

8/12:  A very dear friend that I've reconnected with invited me to her house for a family game night.  It was just like old times, although it was not our old friend group.  Still--it's great to reconnect.  And I love playing games.

8/13:  I went to school today. I know, I'm kind of shaking my head in shock, too.  But I spent about fifteen minutes sorting things that had gotten piled on my desk over the summer.  I then attended the Curriculum Leaders meeting, which was quite productive.  I am holding firm to my no school outside of contract hours stance.  In previous years, I would have spent hours setting up my classroom and getting materials ready for the first day of school on my own time.  But not anymore.  To summarize:  the meeting was productive, and I held firmly to my boundaries!



three on thursday

 

Thing 1:  something new to me that I am bananas about is Skinny Dipped Lemon Bliss almonds.  Holy moly!  Talk about delicious!

Thing 2:  since I got pissed at my manicurist of fourteen years and decided not to get manicures anymore, my nails were horribly wrecked by consistent gel manicures.  My Pennsylvania sister recommended the brand Londontown and I am astonished at the results I've had.  My nails are healing and growing.  And look good while that's happening!  I wish I could be a sponsored influencer for the brand because I'm a devotee!

Thing 3:  my search for the perfect sunglasses is over!  A friend mentioned some over-the-glasses sunglasses she had purchased (from a TikTok shop) and raved about them.  I found similar glasses from a reputable online shop because I'm skeptical of TikTok shops.  Et voilà!