6.22.2026

currently

 I am...

Reading:  The Queen of Wishful Thinking by Milly Johnson

Listening to: The Big Bang Theory on TBS

Thinking:  making plans with my sister and nieces

Feeling:  pampered

Celebrating:  no longer keeping track of what day it is

Grateful for:  time with my Virginia sister

Enjoying:  today I learned how to play Mexican Train 

Weather:  70° and mostly cloudy

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finished reading

This book left me with more questions than answers, which added to the clever and unique delivery style. 
Instead of a straightforward narrative, the story unfolds through a series of interviews given by family friends, family members, detectives, teachers, and other members of the Afghan community who had contact with the Sharif family.

Reading it this way, I found myself constantly wondering about bias, both implicit and explicit, and how heavily perception shapes what people accept as "fact." Every speaker brings their own history and baggage to the table, making the reader piece together the truth from a collection of deeply subjective viewpoints.

Without spoiling anything, I’ll say that the open-ended conclusion felt incredibly satisfying. The lack of a neat, wrapped-up resolution feels entirely intentional. In the end, it proves a powerful point: we can never truly know a person or a family entirely from the outside.

From the publisher:
Zorah Sharaf could do no wrong. Zorah Sharaf brought shame upon her family. What’s the truth? Depends on who you ask.

The Sharaf family is the picture of success. Successful, rich, happy. They came to this country as refugees with nothing more than the clothes on their backs. And now, after years of hard work, they live in the most exclusive neighborhood, their growing family attending the most prestigious schools. Zorah, the eldest daughter, is the apple of her father’s eye.

When an unthinkable tragedy strikes, everyone is left reeling and the family is thrust into the court of public opinion. There is talk that behind closed doors the Sharafs’ happy household was anything but. Did the Sharaf family achieve the American dream? Or was the image of the model immigrant family just a façade?

Like a literary game of ping-pong, Good People compels the reader to reconsider what might have happened even on the previous page. Told through a kaleidoscope of perspectives, it is a riveting, provocative, and haunting story of family—sisters, brothers, mothers, fathers, and the communities that claim us as family in difficult times.

6.21.2026

sunday stealing

 
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Shopping Day


What's on your shopping list from ...        
1. Target or Walmart, or other superstore?  the only thing I can think of is Refresh eye drops
                 
2. Dollar Tree or Dollar General, or poundstretcher/99p store? hmmm, I don't go there very often unless school is in--I get paper plates and other stuff like that there

3. Best Buy or any other electronics/appliance store? nothing--my last Amazon purchase was a charging plug because I forgot mine at home

4. Book/music store? this is the place to browse!  I used to spend HOURS in record stores and I can still spend a chunk of time in a bookstore!

Bonus question! Where do you want to stop for lunch? usually Harvest Moon Deli

postsecret




PostSecret is an ongoing community art project where people mail in their secrets anonymously on one side of a postcard. I like to post one that speaks to me each week.

6.20.2026

saturday 9


The Men In My Little Girl's Life

 Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here. Chosen for Father's Day.

1) In this song, a father shares the story of his daughter's life through first the boys, then the men, she brought home. The first is Rod, a little kid who wants to play in the backyard. Who were your playmates when you were young? Did you find it more fun to have them over to your home, or to go to theirs? my next door neighbor, Mike, and I were best friends--I loved playing at his house (his older sister is my Virginia sister's childhood best friend) because they had a pinball game and air hockey and all kinds of cool stuff!

2) Then his daughter asked if Lee could carry her books on the walk to/from school. During your junior high years, how did you travel to school (bus, bicycle, car pool, shoe leather)?
mostly by bus, although I lived about a mile away from school so often walked home
 
3) Throughout this song, the father recalls that his daughter alternately called him "Daddy," "Dad," "Popsie," "Pop" and "Father." How did/do you address your father? mostly Dad although affectionately Daddy
 
4) The song ends with the daughter asking her father to babysit. When did you last look after someone else's child? that's been awhile.  But I am currently watching my niece's dog
 
5) This record was a Top 10 hit in the US and it made the Top 20 in Canada. Much of its success was attributed to Mike Douglas' TV popularity. From 1965 to 1981, he hosted a daytime talk show. Do you watch much daytime TV? no
 
6) Mike Douglas was a father himself. He had three daughters, including twins. Are there twins in your family? I have twin cousins in my mother's side of the family--several sets of them, actually
 
Now about Father's Day ... 
 
7) Retail chains like O'Reilly Auto Parts, Auto Zone and Jiffy Lube are all promoting gift cards and car-related gifts for Father's Day. If you got a gift card from one of those stores, how would you upgrade your ride? I would get a WeatherTech liner for the trunk of my car
 
8) Dick's Sporting Goods also enjoys a spike in gift card sales around Father's Day. Have you more recently given or received a gift card? given

9) In days gone by, ties were the #1 Father's Day gift. But as today's workplace has become more casual, fragrance has taken over the top spot. Dove Men+Care offers gift sets with shampoo/conditioner, body wash and antiperspirant. Think about your shower routine. Are your shampoo, body wash and antiperspirant all the same brand or the same scent? I have a lavender cleansing conditioner and soap but they aren't the same brand 

6.18.2026

three on thursday

Thing one:  being on vacation is wonderful.  Being with my sister, in Virginia, is wonderful.  Not a lot of side quests this week, mostly lying low and playing our 40-year-old grudge match of spite & malice.

Thing two:  I have already lost track of the date, time, and day of the week.

Thing three:  dogs.  Gus is my first love.  Saphira (I'm not 100% on the spelling) is my niece's dog that we're watching this weekend.  Dogs.  DOGS!

6.15.2026

postsecret

 

PostSecret is an ongoing community art project where people mail in their secrets anonymously on one side of a postcard. I like to post one that speaks to me each week.

currently

 I am...

ReadingGood People by Patmeena Sabit

Listening to: Joss Stone's radio station on Spotify

Thinking:  I had quite the adventure getting to my Virginia sister's!

Feeling:  starting to relax

Celebrating:  keeping calm when things were overwhelming while traveling

Grateful for:  cell phones!  Being able to instantly reach out to my bestie and Virginia sister was a big relief

Enjoying: now that I'm here, ensconced comfortably, I'm relaxing and enjoying my family

Weather:  75° and mostly sunny

A quote I want to share


finished reading

One of my favorite authors has done it again: a beautiful story told masterfully. A chance encounter at the Metropolitan Museum of Art turns into an exploration of memory and connection. Told through a series of conversations and shared events, the current-day timeline follows 53-year-old Daphne as she reconnects with her first step-father, Eddie. Decades after he vanished from her life, their reunion forces them to look back at the brief year they spent as a family and the indelible car accident they experienced together when Daphne was just nine years old.

The second narrative thread pieces together the events of that snowy night, unpacking the far-reaching effects of a single, momentous event and the secrets Daphne's mother kept in its wake. The characters are relatable, complex people who feel entirely real. It’s a sweet, gentle yet quietly profound story about how love endures and how the stories we tell each other can shape our lives.

From the publisher:
When Daphne Fuller and her husband Jonathan visit the Metropolitan Museum of Art, they notice an older, white-haired gentleman following them. The man turns out to be Eddie Triplett, her former stepfather, who had been married to her mother for a little more than year when Daphne was nine. Now fifty-three, Daphne hasn’t seen Eddie for many years, not since the fateful event that changed the direction of both their lives. Meeting again, time falls away; while their relationship was brief, it had a profound impact on them both, and now that they are reunited, they have no intention of ever being separated again.

Whistler is a story about two adults looking back over the choices they made, and the choices that were made for them. It’s a story about bravery, memory, the often small yet consequential moments that define our lives, and the endless stream of loss that in time comes for us all. Beautiful in its simplicity, it is ultimately about how love endures, and how the feeling of being known by one other person, even for a short period of time, can change everything.



6.11.2026

three on thursday

Thing one:  today was the last day of school, a half-day.  Every year I complain about what a complete waste of time it is.  This year I took it off.  I don't think I've ever had such a delightful day.

Thing two:  mostly, I spent the day prepping and packing for my trip. I had ChatGPT put together a capsule wardrobe based on four pairs of shorts and a pair of linen pants.  It suggested five different T-shirts and a chambray shirt that will mix and match.  I did add one dress for just in case, but that's what I packed.  I didn't overpack.

Thing three:  it's really hot here (for Maine to be in the mid-80s in June is rare), and I don't have my air conditioner in.  I hope I can sleep tonight!  Tomorrow's an early start!

6.08.2026

gotta do what I've gotta do

I had high (unrealistic) hopes for my ability to participate in The Gal's Gratitude Challenge.  But the school year ending, a month-long trip to prepare for, and a doozie of a cold, I just can't keep up.  

finished reading

On this road trip adventure, there are deep issues such as redemption, dysfunction, healing, and second chances, balanced by humor and outrageous situations. This book is full of delightfully quirky characters.  Starting with the antihero, PJ Halliday, who is approaching rock bottom at an alarming pace.  His heart is mostly in the right place as he makes questionable decisions galore.  PJ's younger daughter Sophie, who has sort of failed to launch after her older sister's death. Add in two grieving siblings who are smack in the tween years, who are wise beyond their years in a naive way.  PJ's ex-wife Ivy and her boyfriend Fred (who PJ calls his best friend) add the dash of normal to this cast of characters. And rounding out the motley group is Pancakes, the sentient ginger cat whose special talent is sensing death.

From the publisher:
A darkly comic and warm-hearted novel about an old man on a cross-country mission to reunite with his high school crush—bringing together his adult daughter, two orphaned kids, and a cat who can predict death—from the beloved author of Rabbit Cake and Unlikely Animals

At sixty-three years old, million-dollar lottery winner PJ Halliday would be the luckiest man in Pondville, Massachusetts, if it weren’t for the tragedies of his life: the sudden death of his eldest daughter and the way his marriage fell apart after that. Since then, PJ spends both his money and his time at the bar, and he probably doesn’t have much time left—he’s had three heart attacks already.

But when PJ reads an obituary of his old romantic rival, he realizes his high school sweetheart, Michelle Cobb, is finally single again. Filled with a new enthusiasm for life, PJ decides he’s going to drive across the country to the Tender Hearts Retirement Community in Arizona to win Michelle back.

Before PJ can hit the road, tragedy strikes Pondville, leaving PJ the sudden guardian of his estranged brother’s grandchildren. Anyone else would be deterred from the planned trip, but PJ figures the orphaned kids might benefit from getting out of town. PJ also figures he can ask Sophie, his adult daughter, adrift in her 20s, to come along to babysit. And there’s one more surprise addition to the roster: Pancakes, a former nursing home therapy cat with a knack of predicting death, who recently turned up outside PJ’s home.

This could be the second chance PJ has long hoped for—a second shot at love and parenting—but does he have the strength to do both those things again? It’s very possible his heart can’t take it.



currently

 I am...

Reading: Whistler by Ann Patchett

Listening to: the fridge hum

Thinking: I have so much to do to finish up the school year and get ready for my month-long trip to Virginia

Feeling:  this cold has really kicked my butt!  I'm still without full voice and coughing and very tired

Celebrating:  there are two days of school left for me this year!

Grateful for:  I was able to make a nail appointment at a different salon. I'm relieved to get any appointment anywhere!

Enjoying: putting together a capsule wardrobe to hopefully prevent me from overpacking

Weather:  66° and mostly cloudy

A quote I want to share