10.25.2026

sunday stealing

 
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The Grown Up Meme


1. Do you have a college degree? yes, a Bachelor of Science in Secondary Education with a concentration in Social Studies

2. What was the amount of your last electric bill? $18.38 but don't get too hyped up, I had paid my last bill twice by mistake

3. Do you have life insurance? yes

4. Do you check your cholesterol on (at least) an annual basis? yes

5. Have you ever attended a high school reunion? yes, the 40th was a blast!

6. Do you have a will or estate plan? I have started putting it together

7. Do you remember when MTV played music videos? I was a big fan!

8. Is there a bottle of wine in your refrigerator? no, I don't drink

9. Have you been divorced? no

10. When you were 16, did you play music on vinyl, cassette, or CDs? mostly vinyl and cassette--I was renowned for my mixed tapes--they were epic

finished reading

I didn't know "revenge feminism" was a thing until this book. The three main characters: Jo, Harriet, and Nessa, are menopausal women coming into their own. While I could relate to their menopausal experiences, I found I didn't connect with them as characters. And it bothered me that the black character had second sight--that seemed very cliched. I think the book was too long, and the pacing suffered as a result. There were a few side stories that didn't move the plot along, making it feel a bit like a slog to get through nearly 500 pages by the time I crossed the finish line.

From the publisher:
Big Little Lies meets The Witches of Eastwick—a gloriously entertaining and knife-sharp feminist revenge fantasy about three women whose midlife crisis brings unexpected new powers—putting them on a collision course with the evil that lurks in their wealthy beach town.

In the Long Island oceanfront community of Mattauk, three different women discover that midlife changes bring a whole new type of empowerment…

After Nessa James’s husband dies and her twin daughters leave for college, she’s left all alone in a trim white house not far from the ocean. In the quiet of her late forties, the former nurse begins to hear voices. It doesn’t take long for Nessa to realize that the voices calling out to her belong to the dead—a gift she’s inherited from her grandmother, which comes with special responsibilities.

On the cusp of 50, suave advertising director Harriett Osborne has just witnessed the implosion of her lucrative career and her marriage. She hasn’t left her house in months, and from the outside, it appears as if she and her garden have both gone to seed. But Harriet’s life is far from over—in fact, she’s undergone a stunning and very welcome metamorphosis.

Ambitious former executive Jo Levison has spent thirty long years at war with her body. The free-floating rage and hot flashes that arrive with the beginning of menopause feel like the very last straw—until she realizes she has the ability to channel them, and finally comes into her power.

Guided by voices only Nessa can hear, the trio of women discover a teenage girl whose body was abandoned beside a remote beach. The police have written the victim off as a drug-addicted sex worker, but the women refuse to buy into the official narrative. Their investigation into the girl’s murder leads to more bodies, and to the town’s most exclusive and isolated enclave, a world of stupendous wealth where the rules don’t apply. With their newfound powers, Jo, Nessa, and Harriet will take matters into their own hands…

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PostSecret is an ongoing community art project where people mail in their secrets anonymously on one side of a postcard. I like to post one that speaks to me each week.

10.24.2026

saturday 9


Smoke Rings

Unfamiliar with this week's song? Hear it here.

1) In this song, Donald Mills of the Mills Brothers encourages us to "puff, puff, puff" our cares away. When did you most recently smoke a cigarette? December 27, 1998
 
2) In the 1930s, when this week's song was recorded, an estimated 40% of American adults smoked cigarettes. By the early 1960s, that number reached a high of 42%. According to the CDC, the percentage of adult smokers dropped to 11%. Do many of your friends and relatives smoke or vape? no, I am aware of one person who is close to me who is a smoker
 
3) Donald was the youngest of the singing Mills Brothers, and he's the one who most often sang lead. That squares with popular birth order theory, which proposes that the youngest tends to enjoy being the center of attention, the middle child is the diplomat, and the oldest is the high-achiever. Think of your own family and the families of your friends. Do you think this theory holds true? well--mostly yes
 
4) The Mills Brothers were one of the first famous singing brother acts. The Williams Brothers – which featured future TV star Andy Williams – followed in their footsteps. Can you think of another group of singing brothers? The DeFranco Family, the Osmonds, the Jackson 5, Hanson, the Jonas Brothers
 
5) In addition to recording hit records, The Mills Brothers were a staple on radio in the 1930s. They were among the first African American artists to host their own radio show and sang jingles for Standard Oil and Crisco. What commercial do you recall having seen, or heard, recently? political ads 🙁
 
6) In 1933, when this week's song was popular, actor Robert Montgomery and his wife had a daughter they named Elizabeth. That little girl would become famous in the 1960s for her own TV show. Without looking it up, do you know what show Elizabeth Montgomery starred in? oh yes!  Bewitched!
 
7) Johnny Cash was also born in 1933. Do you have a favorite Johnny Cash song? his cover songs of "Hurt" and "One" are my favorites
 
8) In 1933, five French airlines merged to form Air France. Think of the last time you were at an airport. Were you taking a flight or meeting a flight? taking
 
9) Random question: Your best friend just received a certificate for completing a car maintenance course at your community college. Would you let them work on your vehicle? for an oil change or some routine maintenance, sure

10.21.2026

currently it's wednesday

I am...

Reading: The Change by Kirsten Miller; it's out of my usual genre, but I'm really enjoying it.

Listening to:  the air exchange unit in my classroom (lovingly referred to as "the blower" by everyone)

Thinking: it's parent teacher conference day, and I'll be here from 12-7 with only five conferences

Feeling:  kind of bored--I've been putzing around to fill the time

Celebrating:  this is, however, the last time I will have these types of conferences!  Hello, Retirement!

Grateful for:  it's a beautiful day

Enjoying: I spent some time writing postcards to several students to encourage their good work
 
Weather:  52° and sunny

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10.18.2026

sunday stealing

 
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Getting To Know You...


1) Describe yourself in three words. thoughtful, creative, spirited

2) What's your favorite dish at your favorite restaurant? lately when I've gone to breakfast, I've ordered breakfast sandwiches on English muffins:  egg, cheese, and ham

3) Did you set goals for 2026? If yes, how are you proceeding toward them? I set a goal of reading 100 books, and I am on book 105; I also set a goal of publishing reviews of the books on GoodReads and I've gotten lots of positive feedback from them

4) What's something you have learned the hard way? even though I detest having dental work done, it's necessary
 
5) If you could skip one item on today's to-do list, what would it be? I do not have a to-do list today! 😁

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PostSecret is an ongoing community art project where people mail in their secrets anonymously on one side of a postcard. I like to post one that speaks to me each week.

saturday 9


Somewhere Over Laredo

Unfamiliar with this week's song? Hear it here.


1) In this song, Laney Wilson namechecks Tito's Vodka. Is there a product you you are very brand loyal to? (It doesn't have to be liquor. Maybe you always reach for Dawn Dishwashing Liquid, even if another soap is on sale.) my loyalties lie with Dawn dish soap, Bounty paper towels, and Wen cleansing conditioner
 
2) The lyrics start with her in a window seat on a flight out of Houston. Do you prefer the window or the aisle? window, please!
 
3) She's dreaming of rodeo nights with the guy she loves. If you could spend this evening with anyone at all, anywhere at all, where would you go and who would be with you? my bestie and I attended a Literacy Tea fundraiser and it was what I would pick and the company I would pick
 
4) Lainey is from Baskin, LA, population 200. Do you prefer big cities or small towns? small towns preferably near cities
 
5) There's a Netflix documentary about Lainey called Keepin' Country Cool. What show have you recently streamed? Ted Lasso
 
6) This week's song borrows liberally from "Somewhere Over the Rainbow," so much so that "Rainbow" songwriters Harold Arlen and Yip Harburg receive credit. "Somewhere Over the Rainbow" is the most beloved song from The Wizard of Oz. Can you name another? "If I Only Had A Brain"
 
7) In 2025, when this song was popular, more patients took advantage of telehealth than ever before. Have you ever had a virtual doctor visit? yes, and the doctor told me to go to the ER immediately
 
8) Also in 2025, smart home technology was integrated into more new home construction. Do you use smart devices to automate your lights, thermostat, or doorbell? my household is dumb--not a smart device in control
 
9) Random question – On which day are you happier: a) the day you take off on vacation or b) the day you return home from your trip? that's a good question--I love the anticipation but I equally love coming home

finished reading

I enjoyed this YA dystopian/utopian novel. The world-building is fantastic, and the characters are quite well-developed and distinct (and thankfully, the parents and adults are not bumbling idiots). In this futuristic society, there is no natural death, so a squad of professional scythes manages the population—it makes sense in the story, even if it's hard to describe briefly!

In some of the reading I've done about this series, it is categorized as a romance; however, this book is light on romance, focusing much more on platonic love than desire. The central characters recruited as scythe apprentices, Citra and Rowan, come from very different backgrounds. Through a series of events, they are re-apprenticed from Faraday, a compassionate scythe, to two other scythes with competing moral codes. And that's where the action really takes off.

Overall, the pace of the book is a bit uneven, as some repetition and overly detailed descriptions slow the action down. But once the twists occur, the plot wildly careens to a cliffhanger ending.

From the publisher:
Thou shalt kill.

A world with no hunger, no disease, no war, no misery. Humanity has conquered all those things, and has even conquered death. Now scythes are the only ones who can end life—and they are commanded to do so, in order to keep the size of the population under control.

Citra and Rowan are chosen to apprentice to a scythe—a role that neither wants. These teens must master the “art” of taking life, knowing that the consequence of failure could mean losing their own.

10.12.2026

currently

I am...

Reading: We Keep The Dead Close by Becky Cooper

Listening to:  my neighbors; they are not being loud, but I can hear the murmur of their tv

Thinking: I can visit my sisters whenever I want after June 7th--that's my retirement date!

Feeling:  tired but happy

Celebrating:   it was a GREAT visit with my Pennsylvania and Virginia and local sisters!

Grateful for:  all the laughter

Enjoying: my bonus day--I hung out with my Virginia sister
 
Weather:  39° and mostly cloudy

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10.11.2026

sunday stealing

 
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Survey Asks...


1. What was the last gift you received? a giant Freshcut Paper card

2. Who did you last hang out with? my Pennsylvania and Virginia and local sisters

3. Do you often lose the remote? this is a fun question--sinceI moved into this apartment in 2023, I haven't watched tv on my television because I cannot find the remote

4. When did you last check Facebook? about fifteen minutes ago

5. Are there scented candles in the room you're in? no, I can't burn candles here

6. Next time you leave the house, where will you be going? probably to my dad's

7. Do you know anyone named Steven or Stephen or Steve or Stevie? yes to all of them

8. Which do you prefer: macaroni salad or potato salad? potato salad

9. Do you have an ice maker in your refrigerator door? no

10. When you woke up this morning, did you get up straightaway or lounge a bit? I got up

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PostSecret is an ongoing community art project where people mail in their secrets anonymously on one side of a postcard. I like to post one that speaks to me each week.

10.10.2026

saturday 9


Big Girls Don't Cry

Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

1) When is the last time you shed a tear?  Monday during an intense conversation

2) Lyricist/producer Bob Crewe recalled he got the idea for this song while watching a movie on TV. "Big girls don't cry" was a line from the 1956 film Slightly Scarlet. Give us a quote from another movie. "Snap out of it!"

3) This inspiration came to Bob during the late night/early morning hours. What time of day are you most productive? I'm at my best in the morning

4) Bob wrote another song for the Four Seasons, "Silence Is Golden." The band was not happy with their recording and never released it as a single. Three years later, The Tremeloes had an international Top 10 hit with "Silence Is Golden." Tell us about a decision you wish you could do over. oh gosh... I wish I hadn't had cheesecake after dinner

5) Before he got his big break, Four Seasons lead singer Frankie Valli worked as barber. Do you have a hair care appointment scheduled? I do not
 
6) Oscar-winning actor Joe Pesci has a connection to the band. He was a young chum of Four Seasons founding member Tommy DeVito. By the time DeVito left the group and found himself overwhelmed by gambling debts, Pesci was a star. He helped his friend out, making Tommy his personal assistant and getting him cameo roles in films. Tell us about someone who has been there for you in tough times. My Virginia and Pennsylvania sisters have been in town, so the four of us have been spending as much time as possible together.  My sisters have definitely been there for me.
 
7) The Four Seasons disbanded in 1977 after 17 years together. The original bandmates reunited onstage 1990 when they were inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. It was an important night for them professionally and personally, too, as it gave the old friends a chance to reconnect and mend fences. Is there anyone from your past you wish you could reach out to? no one comes to mind

8) Another hit song from 1962 was "I Left My Heart in San Francisco." Tony Bennett compares San Francisco to Rome, Paris and Manhattan. Have you visited any of those four cities? I've been to San Francisco, Paris, and Manhattan
 
9) Random question – You're home all alone. Do you close the door when you use the bathroom? no, I do not