10.21.2025

ten things tuesday

I'm on book 114 for the year (so far!) and thought I would recommend ten more--here are links to my recommendations from 29-50 and recommendations from the first 29:


1) On A Quiet Street by Seraphina Nova Glass.   It's like the Real Housewives of Whatevertown on steroids! The three narrative threads are from unlikable, unreliable characters.  I was engrossed and drawn into how the storylines combine and overlap.  This book!  What a thrill ride!  There are twists, and just when I was accepting what was happening and to whom, BLAM!  Another wild twist.  There were moments I didn't dare to speculate what might happen because the twists were overlapping.  

2) I Hope This Finds You Well by Natalie Sue.  There is more to this book than I expected.  The author balances humor with heavy issues in a sensitive manner.  There are quirky characters that jump off the page.  Some of the drudgery of office life translates to life in a school, especially the petty one-upmanship.  The main character, Jolene, grapples with serious anxiety and self-medicating, which made me feel for her, especially as her overthinking spirals.  

3) The Griffin Sisters' Greatest Hits by Jennifer Weiner. This is a complex study of relationships--mothers and daughters, sisters, and lovers.  There are three narrative arcs: Cassie, Zoe, and Zoe's daughter Cherry, and multiple timelines are featured. The structure worked well, although I was more intrigued by the story of Cassie and Zoe's meteoric rock 'n 'roll rise and the ultimate unraveling of their lives.  

4) Broken Country by Clare Leslie Hall.  Although I figured out the final twist, there were satisfying twists that I didn't anticipate, which kept me listening into the wee hours.  The way the narrative threads weave together from different points in the characters' lives was an interesting structure.  The characters are rich and real, no stereotypes here.  There are moments of such tender love.

5) The Savage, Noble Death of Babs Dionne by Ron Currie. Ultimately, this is a saga of a crime family.  It's gritty. A crime family committing horrible crimes for what they consider altruistic reasons. The narration is from the point of view of the matriarch, Babs Dionne, and her daughter, military veteran Lori Dionne.  The well-developed secondary characters are mostly their relatives.  It's a well-written, well-crafted character-driven book.  Dealing with the much-maligned Franco-American population in Maine.  Not a lot of Franco-American history is taught outside of Maine.  It's a history fraught with prejudice, including Klan activity. Babs Dionne is combating cultural negativity in her own way.  She is proud of her heritage and celebrates it at every opportunity. I just don't know what to say.  This is so well-written yet so gritty.  I recommend it, but it's not for everyone.

6)  My Friends by Fredrik Backman.  This is one of my favorite books of the year.  Exploring the complexities of friendship and aging, the story follows four lifelong friends as they experience success, failure, and everything in between.  It's a look at a shared past and reflections on their unwavering support as they navigate life.  There are poignant reflections, some of which are difficult to read and harrowing.  But the bonds of friendship shaped their experiences and lives.  

7) Atmosphere by Taylor Jenkins Reid.  Taylor Jenkins Reid is becoming one of my favorite authors.  I'm not gonna lie: a novel about women and space made me skeptical that I would enjoy this story.  However, the space jargon aside, I was absolutely drawn in.  The character development is rich; I could feel their drive and determination to shatter the glass ceiling.  Yet each is human. This is a love story like no other I have read.  Not because it's saphic, but because of the simplicity of the love.  I felt it, I cheered for it.

I still don't want to go to space.

8) So Far Gone by Jess Walters.  This book is a definite rave! It's a darkly funny look at a family's turmoil set against the backdrop of today's social and political climate. The author takes you on an emotional journey, making you laugh, gasp, and tear up—sometimes all on the same page. It's a powerful and thought-provoking story about how our actions, or our silence, shape the world we live in. The audio is performed by one of my favorite narrators: Edoardo Ballerini.

9)  The Poppy Fields by Nikki Erlick.  This book is an absolute must-read for a book club, offering themes and elements ripe for discussion. At its core, the novel introduces an intriguing speculative premise: a carefully vetted process designed to offer grief relief by allowing those who have suffered tremendous loss to essentially sleep through their pain.

While the concept touches on heavy topics--including medical ethics, the complexities of grief and loss, and the role of social media in modern life--the book never feels weighed down. The novel centers on the journey of four main characters who are drawn together on their quest toward the Poppy Fields. It's in creating this found family that the book truly shines. Each character brings a poignant and unique experience of loss, estrangement, and hope, which humanizes the abstract themes. This focus on personal, character-driven storytelling is a major strength, setting it apart from other, often more clinical and distant, works of speculative fiction in the same vein (I'm thinking Never Let Me Go or The Memory Police).   

10) The Correspondent by Virginia Evans.  This charming epistolary novel begins with a curmudgeonly exchange. As we learn more about Sybil Van Antwerp, it is clear why she favors letter writing as her primary means of communication.  Sybil navigates several relationships: her brother, her lifelong bestie, her daughter, among others, and comes to realize that the letter she never sent is the most important one.

10.20.2025

currently

I am...

Reading: What Kind of Paradise by Janelle Brown

Listening to: Instagram videos

Thinking:  I remember why I didn't wear these jeans often last year (I dug my winter pants out yesterday), and it's because I am not built for skinny jeans.

Feeling:  tuckered out

Celebrating:  I had fun at school today--my students really went for their over-the-top skits in class.

Grateful for: a profession I still love after almost 30 years

Enjoying: funny texts with my sisters

Weather:  55° and cloudy

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finished rereading

I re-read this book as a buddy-read with my Tennessee niece.  We wanted something fun and magical.  I think I confused the book with the movie.  I love the movie.  The book is very very very different.  

From the publisher:
When the beautiful and precocious sisters Sally and Gillian Owens are orphaned at a young age, they are taken to a small Massachusetts town to be raised by their eccentric aunts, who happen to dwell in the darkest, eeriest house in town. As they become more aware of their aunts' mysterious and sometimes frightening powers -- and as their own powers begin to surface -- the sisters grow determined to escape their strange upbringing by blending into "normal" society.

But both find that they cannot elude their magic-filled past. And when trouble strikes -- in the form of a menacing backyard ghost -- the sisters must not only reunite three generations of Owens women but embrace their magic as a gift -- and their key to a future of love and passion. Funny, haunting, and shamelessly romantic, Practical Magic is bewitching entertainment -- Alice Hoffman at her spectacular best.

10.19.2025

sunday stealing

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Meme Schmeme


Complete the thought:

I AM about to begin a new decade of life, complete with new, exciting changes and challenges.  Here I come, 60!

I LIVE a quiet life filled with curiosity and wonder.  Geographically inconvenient, forcing creative solutions to problems.

I THINK, well, I overthink. 

I KNOW the Muffin Man.  His name is Bill and he is a baker.

I WANT a mild winter.  Please.  Pretty please.

I WISH the local hospital and my insurance company would settle their negotiations without causing major disruption to my healthcare.

I PRAY for peace.  Always.  For me, for my family and friends, for those suffering, for the world.

postsecret


PostSecret is an ongoing community art project where people mail in their secrets anonymously on one side of a postcard. I like to post one that speaks to me each week.

10.18.2025

saturday 9


Into the Groove

Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.
 
1) Madonna begins this song by telling us, "I'm waiting." What's something you're waiting for today? it's 7 o'clock Saturday evening--I'm not waiting for anything anymore
 
2) She sings that dancing gives her a feeling so good she hopes it will never end. What reliably lifts your spirits? driving
 
3) As a school girl in Michigan, Madonna was a good student but could be disruptive. Classmates recall her doing cartwheels in the halls between classes. Can you do a cartwheel? no, I never could
 
4) It's not surprising that a girl from the Detroit area would love cars. Madonna's car collection is valued at more than $2 million. The one she seems to drive most often is a 2022 Cadillac Escalade ESV. Insurance industry data tells us Americans typically keep their cars for 8 years. How long have you had your current vehicle? almost six months 😃
 
5) She has referred to Nancy Sinatra as one of her idols, saying "These Boots Were Made for Walking" and its accompanying video impressed her when she was a little girl. What pop song brings back memories from your childhood? "Yellow Submarine" or "Octopus's Garden"
 
6) Madonna suffers from brontophobia, or the fear of thunder and lightening. Are you afraid of storms? no
 
7) In 1985, when this song was popular, the Titanic wreckage was discovered. There have been at least a dozen movies about that ill-fated ship. Have you seen any of them? I've seen a few, in 1985 I was a teaching assistant to a history professor who was deep into everything Titanic-related and we watched a lot of the films
 
8) Also in 1985Bruce Willis became a star with a hit show about a detective agency. Can you name it? (Extra non-existent points if you can recall the agency's name.) the show is Moonlighting and it was the Blue Moon Detective Agency
 
9) Random question: Describe your perfect ice cream sundae. well, that's a complex question because I have different answers for different ice cream consistencies:  soft-serve, hard ice cream, and homemade ice cream are handled differently.  I might be a sundae fanatic.  Generally, there is hot fudge involved.

10.17.2025

finished reading

This debut novel is an exploration of female ambition, control, and appetite, both literal and emotional. The story centers on the main female character, known by her childhood nickname Piglet, an up-and-coming cookbook editor who has meticulously crafted a seemingly perfect upper-middle-class life in Oxford with her handsome, well-connected fiancé, Kit. With their elaborate, dream-wedding just two weeks away, and Piglet navigating pressures from her career and her future in-laws, her carefully constructed world is shattered when Kit confesses a devastating, yet undisclosed, betrayal. This moment forces Piglet to confront the gap between the life she thinks she wants and the desires she's repressed.

The approaching wedding serves as a countdown to a complete personal unraveling, with food as the medium Piglet processes her growing rage and uncertainty. Known since childhood as "the daughter who ate," Piglet’s complicated relationship with food manifests in lavish cooking for others and, in private, emotional binges on fast food as she struggles to fit into her wedding dress and conform to societal expectations. As the day of the ceremony draws closer, the pressures mount, forcing her to reckon with the class differences between her own family and Kit’s wealthy one, and ultimately, to make a dramatic choice about the marriage and the lies she has told herself to achieve her version of a perfect life.

From the publisher:
Outside of a childhood nickname she can’t shake, Piglet’s rather pleased with how her life’s turned out. An up-and-coming cookbook editor at a London publishing house, she’s got lovely, loyal friends and a handsome fiancé, Kit, whose rarefied family she actually, most of the time, likes, despite their upper-class eccentricities. One of the many, many things Kit loves about Piglet is the delicious, unfathomably elaborate meals she’s always cooking.

But when Kit confesses a horrible betrayal two weeks before they’re set to be married, Piglet finds herself suddenly…hungry. The couple decides to move forward with the wedding as planned, but as it nears and Piglet balances family expectations, pressure at work, and her quest to make the perfect cake, she finds herself increasingly unsettled, behaving in ways even she can’t explain. Torn between a life she’s always wanted and the ravenousness that comes with not getting what she knows she deserves, Piglet is, by the day of her wedding, undone, but also ready to look beyond the lies we sometimes tell ourselves to get by.

A stylish, uncommonly clever novel about the things we want and the things we think we want, Piglet is both an examination of women’s often complicated relationship with food and a celebration of the messes life sometimes makes for us.

finished reading

This quirky and charming cozy mystery starts with a flock of sheep discovering their beloved shepherd, George, dead in the pasture on page 1.  The intrepid sheep are determined to figure out what happened to George. The sheep's quest takes them on furtive missions into the village of Glenkill, where they encounter a colorful cast of two-legged suspects: from the terrifying butcher Ham, who smells of death, to a secretive newcomer named Rebecca. As they eavesdrop on human conversations, the sheep often hilariously misunderstand or partially comprehend the complicated human world, exposing the sordid histories, romantic rivalries, and secret sins of the insular town. This unusual perspective not only drives the mystery but offers a witty and warm philosophical lens on human nature, making the book a unique and endearing whodunit.

From the publisher:
Soon to be a major motion picture starring Hugh Jackman and Emma Thompson, this funny and surprising mystery features a new breed of detectives you’ve got to read to baaaaa-lieve.

Something is not right with George the shepherd. His sheep have gathered around him outside the cozy Irish village of Glennkill to assess the situation. George has cared for the sheep, reading them books every night, and now he lies pinned to the ground with a spade. His flock, far savvier about the workings of the human mind than your average sheep, sets out to find George’s killer, led by Miss Maple, the smartest sheep in Glennkill (and possibly the world).

Her team of investigators includes Othello, who was rescued from the Dublin Zoo; Mopple the Whale, who is always hungry and remembers everything; and Zora, an existential ewe—just to name a few. Together, the sheep discuss the crime late into the night, and their speculations vary wildly. Determined to unravel the mystery, they embark on furtive missions into the village, where they encounter a hoof-full of two-legged suspects. There’s Ham, the terrifying butcher who smells of death; Rebecca, the secretive village newcomer; and Father Will, a sinister priest the sheep call God.

With wit and heart, this clever international bestseller is a mystery to chew on—and savor.

three on thursday

One:  this week has been long, for a short week.

Two:  Wednesday was parent-teacher conference day and I had none.  Not one single conference.  I managed to get a lot of planning done plus my textbook inventory.  Oh, and I started the budget process!

Three:  I need a hurkle-durkle day.  Hopefully, Sunday will be it!

10.14.2025

currently

I am...

Reading Three Bags Full by Leonie Swann

Listening to: the printer

Thinking:  tomorrow is parent-teacher conferences, and no one signed up

Feeling:  I'm gearing up for an intense therapy session--on the horizon is a challenging, difficult conversation I need to navigate with a loved one

Celebrating:  it's getting closer to my 60th birthday!

Grateful for: my therapist--she was invaluable as I prepare for the conversation.

Enjoying: I put on a cozy sweatshirt after school.  Slouchy, comfy

Weather:  55° and partly sunny

A quote I want to share


10.13.2025

sunday stealing

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Sunday Stealing Tunes In

1. Name a TV show you've seen every episode of. M*A*S*H, Friends, Soap, Bosom Buddies, Seinfeld, I'm sure there are more...

2. On which device do you do most of your viewing (television, tablet, computer, phone)? my iPad

3. Name an actor/actress who would make you less likely to watch a show. Rosanne Barr

4. When you were a kid, what show did you love? The Brady Bunch

5. What show do you recommend everyone watch? Freaks & Geeks

6. What show do your friends like, but you don't? Grey's Anatomy

7. When you watch TV, do you also busy yourself with something else (jigsaw puzzle, folding laundry, etc.)? sometimes

8. Do you eat a meal or snack while watching TV? not usually

9. What's your preferred genre (comedy, drama, reality, etc.)?  reality competition (like Top Chef or Big Brother) or mystery

10. Do you prefer mini series (shows that tell their stories in a pre-determined number of episodes) or shows that come back season after season? no preference

finished reading

This is the origin story of Andy Carpenter's career as a defense attorney and life with the world's greatest dog, Tara.  I enjoyed this look at the early days of Andy's career.  And finding out how the different characters became part of the regulars. 

From the publisher:
Andy Carpenter has spent the three years since graduating law school working as a prosecutor in Paterson. But having seen how the system never looks out for the little guy, he leaves to start his own practice as a defense attorney. His office might be a little bit of a dump, but he's excited to make a change.

Andy goes to the shelter to adopt a dog, where he meets his beloved golden retriever, Tara, for the first time and feels an immediate connection. The shelter is crowded and Tara's been sharing space with a dog named Sunny; Andy hates to break them up and so asks to take Sunny, too, but since there's a pending criminal case involving the owner, he'll need to get written permission for temporary possession.

Andy discovers that Sunny's owner, Frank Tierney, has been arrested for the murder of his ex-boss. But he takes an immediate liking to Frank and his clear dedication to his dog, and ends up with his first case along with the two dogs.

This prequel to the long-running and perennially popular Andy Carpenter mysteries is a gift for fans and a terrific entry-point for newcomers.